Don't be afraid to lose someone in your life, be afraid to lose yourself

Letting someone go can be tough, but what if the real hurt is losing yourself in the process? We all want to keep the people we care about close, but sometimes that means changing who we are to fit them.

Imagine you love going out, but your partner prefers staying in. You might ditch your hobby to spend more time with them. This feels good in the short term, but deep down, you're dimming your own light. Psychologists call it "cognitive dissonance," that horrible feeling when you act against your true self. Over time, it can make you question who you even are and cause mental problems.

The best relationships celebrate your interests and passions. Don't be afraid to be you - the right people will love you who you really are without trying to change you. A strong sense of self is the foundation of any healthy relationships.

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